Random Acts of Kindness Day & Valentines Day: Spread Some Love!

Happy (belated) Valentines Day and happy Random Acts of Kindness Day everyone! Firstly, an apology. I had good intentions, I genuinely did. My ‘Spread Some Love’ theme for this year was meant to include a bunch of giveaways for you all; I contacted companies, started to arrange the details… then we were hit with a family bereavement and that sent Squiggle’s anxiety spiralling. With a mental health crisis on our hands, naturally everything else just got thrown to the wayside. So I hope that you all appreciate the sentiment ‘it’s the thought that counts’ and know that I would have done this – and will as soon as we are back on top!

However, in the meantime, Squiggle wrote a message…

Paper heart cut out with message 'Happy Valentines Day! I love Everbody!' written in pink felt tip with hearts over it.

Squiggle had her own ideas about how to spread love too, which fitted in perfectly for both Valentines Day and Random Acts of Kindness Day combined! These were entirely her own initiative of course, which is particularly why I was so touched by her thoughtfulness.

Her first idea is to buy some small plush hearts to give out to people wherever and whenever the mood takes her. So sweet! She also told me to put the heart message (pictured above) in my coat pocket so she could randomly hand it to someone. Lastly, she made a point of smiling, waving and verbally greeting or complimenting everybody she saw in some way. For an autistic child with severe anxiety disorder this is huge! She pushed herself out of her own comfort zone in order to be friendly to others – I am so proud of her!

As for kindness to her family, she gave us this…

Happy valentines day message with lots of colourful hearts drawn and written by Squiggle.

Two hearts - one sweet and one chocolate - in a bowl.

Now this may not seem like much, but Squiggle bought these in Ikea a few days beforehand and thought ahead to Valentines Day by saving some heart ones specifically that she had chosen for us. The fact that she went out of her way to do that and chose to give away something she had meant so much! Like the saying goes; ‘if a child gives you a rock, cherish it. It is all they have to give!’

A heartfelt thank you to Trabolgan

A while back I posted about my daughter’s interest in Barney and the various activities she did related to the Numbers Numbers episode. Sometime later she asked if she could write to Barney and his friends to “make sure they are happy”. She made a card and also chose to send some of her colouring pictures as a present to them.

Barney- making cards and letters for the characters 11.02 (6)
Here she is making the cards. She had a go at ‘writing’ the messages herself first then asked me to scribe for her.

 

Unsure where to post it to I came across the website for a holiday village in Cork, Ireland called Trabolgan Holiday Village (http://www.trabolgan.com/) and decided to post it there. I would like to say at this point that I have not (YET!!) been here and we of course had no expectations as to what response we might get from them, although I know she was hoping for a reply of some kind. She was certainly not disappointed! In fact she could not have been more excited and we all found the kindness and thoughtfulness really quite overwhelming.

Trabolgan response
Care and effort were taken over the letters sent to her in response as well as generous gifts.

They even emailed pictures of Barney holding her letter and a sign saying Thank you! We were all very touched by all of this and they truly went above and beyond what we ever could have imagined in reply. If this was anything to go by, this holiday village will be an exceptional place to visit. We cannot wait to visit Trabolgan and look forward to booking soon!

 

Thank you to the staff  who took the time to do all of this, it means so much.

 

Please note Trabolgan did NOT ask me to write this blog post, it is simply meant as a thank you for their act of kindness.