The Value of Free Time to ‘Just’ Play

Yesterday we went to a birthday party somewhere new. Squiggle loves to act out new experiences, I think it helps her to process it fully so is really important she can do this. By the time we got home it was too late to spend much time doing this so we only had a chat about it before she went to bed. However, today we had a whole day free for us to just play at home, entirely self-directed by her. She spent literally all day acting out the event in great detail, for 7 hours solid (except eating!) It really reminded me how beneficial it is to keep a slow pace; it is essential to factor in plenty of respite between activities and keep entire days free regularly just for sustained free play. It holds so much value, this time is just too precious to give up.

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Here are the guests at the party. She made several cards, written independently for the birthday children and also wrapped up gifts herself for them.
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All guests need a wristband before entering the party!
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She spent a couple of hours making wristbands for guests, including cutting to size, colouring and writing on each one then carefully putting them on each guest.
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Using her fine motor skills to put wristbands on her guests- it was quite fiddly!
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Wristband says 'Partyman World' (sounded out and written independently)
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Rope swing/ zip wire in soft play at the party.
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Squiggle having a go of the pinata at the party.
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Acting out the pinata at the party.

Author: Living Life Our Way

NP and home ed mum, conservationist, nature lover, blogger, SEN & MH advocate, ex teacher. ~Don't think outside the box, think like there is no box~

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